Its not easy to say 'I Quit', just one fine day. Its not simple to break that bond with your work and the people you have had around for considerable time of your day, and the rappot you have built over the years (or months!). But at times its probably the best thing to do, the best of choices atleast for you.
We all get into this thought process of quiting at some point of time or other. Which could have been triggered by, a fight with the boss, or the constant work pressure eating up our personal time, or probably some obnixious colleague. But as normal human beings, we prefer to compromise a little bit to stay back, in our comfort zones, which we would have built over time. And well, its not wise too, to put papers for some silly reason. You could be just loosing it all, for yourself and the company you were working for; the reputation at work that was built with collegues and management, the knowledge of domain (of work), and the effort that was put all these days to achieve the above. At times it might not be simply worth it.
There is a limit though to everything, the crossover point for which could be determined only by the individual. So, its that simple. when it gets to the crossover point, you quit. And that holds good just not for work.. for relationships, habits (read obsessions) or anything else for that matter.
Just a few crossover points I am jotting down here;
- When your relationship at work, with your boss or collegue or management is battered beyond repair. That is when, all efforts to mend it have given up (from both sides possibly), its probably the best to just let go.
- When the ethics and culture at your workplace become polar to your principles and values in life. Working in such an environment, would just take away your peace of mind. And you can never be productive in such a situation.
- When you realize that your work life is consuming a major chunk of you personal life and time. When you leave work at 8 pm, carrying home some files to be worked upon over the night. And you cannot remember, when you took a day off last time or went for a vacation. Its probably time.. you say 'It's enough'.
- When your company is loosing its market shares, downsizing the work force, and loosing its customers, probably its time to say goodbye. It might not sound very fair.. but it is just what needs to be done.
- Moreover, when you realize that, this is not the job you really wanted to do ever. Your passion lies in something else. But be 200 percent sure before going for a change of profession. And give ample time to think about the pros and cons of taking such a huge step. A guy I know, quit his well paying job at a telecom company to join an university to study music. It was pretty difficult a decission for him and his family. But they had to plan for it well ahead of time, and make some sacrifices.
To be happy in life, just know when to QUIT.
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Pretty tough decision
It is indeed a pretty tough decision.
For me, most of the time when I stuck with what I was doing was a rational decision and can less be called a 'compromise'. I speak for myself, but it is pretty hard to imagine a situation when things cannot be salvaged to your end.
But sometimes, as you stated - you need to know when to quit.
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Rather i see it taking up a new assignment.............
I like your last line "To be happy in life, just know when to quit". Most of the things written in your article are related to professional life. And our life is not at all stops at professional gate. There is something called Personal Life. Life is beyond the imagination and you never know when life quits you.
Quit your current job/ professional life?
Yes, it’s very hard to quit your job. It’s a very tough decision. It’s not only affect your life, but also affect your family life, your relationship etc. So think carefully before quitting your job.
“Love your job not your company, you don’t know when your company stops loving you”
Just few points
1. As you said bitter working relationship with your boss, awful ethics and culture, unbalanced work life etc
2. When you realize, you are doing a repetitive thing, the knowledge & financial growth is limited, then it’s time to move……..
3. When you realize, your financial requirement (for your family) is increasing and it can’t be fulfilled by the current company, then it’s time to move………….
4. Apart from this employee quit due to several personal reasons, which will differ from individual to individual.
But before quitting the job, plan well ahead. You have to get a new job and you should be confirmed, you will get the things, what you are not getting in your current job. You should be very confident in terms of new job, new profile, new location, new assignment, new surrounding etc
Quit your Personal Life?
I think, it’s comparatively tougher than the first one. When first one gives you the financial insight and other one gives you the emotional insight.
When it comes to personal life, each one of us is emotionally attached to another person and in the course of time this becomes a bond. This bond varies for your family, friends and ………….Quitting this bond is not so easy. Even if you decide to quit from this bond, the bond can’t be broken. It will be there somewhere in your heart…………..
When you find your old school friend after a gap of 20 years…………
When you find your room mate in a party……………………………..
When you find your lost book in your book self after 10 years……….
“Getting a new friend is tougher than getting a new job.”
That’s all from my side.
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This article was more concerned with job..
I understand and agree with your opinion about life. But this article was inclined more towards job and professional life. At any point of time, I would never compare life and job, the levels they are in are not even close.
And sometime, I would probably try to write about the topics you mentioned.
Just curious though, are you planning to remain anonymous for still some more time!
Thank you
Thank you.
Yes, I like the word "Anonymous" and after all what is there in the "Name".